Very Cool Charm School, An Introduction to Etiquette for Kids Aged 9–12!

Say hello to Very Cool Charm School—the ultimate etiquette adventure for tweens aged 9–12! This fun and modern program helps your child build respect, kindness, and confidence while having a blast.

Through interactive activities, real-life practice, and plenty of laughs, your tween will gain essential life skills to feel polished and confident in any scenario.

Let’s help your child discover their charm and tackle the world with grace—together!

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Why Choose Very Cool Charm School?

Looking for an exciting way to teach your child essential manners and social skills? This is a program that transforms etiquette lessons into unforgettable adventures!

How We Make It Fun:

Our sessions are bursting with interactive games, imaginative role-playing, and great activities that make learning fun and informative. Your Tween will laugh, learn, and leave each class with skills they can use every day.

At Good Manners Consulting, we believe that good manners are more than just polite words, they are life skills. By the end of the course, your child will be equipped with confidence and tools to navigate any social situation with charm and grace. Our interactive training methods ensure they have a great time while gaining skills they’ll carry for life.

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What Will Your Child Gain from this experience?

Give your child the gift of confidence and social success!In this exciting and interactive course, your child will gain the essential skills to navigate social situations confidently and efficiently. Over four engaging Saturday morning lessons, your child will:

 The Big Picture Key Content:

Learn how to navigate social situations like a pro

Start conversations and make lasting impressions

Shine in everyday settings, mealtimes, sports, and social get-togethers.

Develop effective communication skills, including active listening and confident speaking.

Master confident body language skills.

Understanding and caring for others' needs.

Polished dining habits. Looking neat and presentable.

Behaving appropriately in shared spaces.

Develop conflict resolution skills.

Understand the importance of personal hygiene and presentation, ensuring they look and feel their best.

Social Skills with Peers. Making and maintaining friendships.

We offer private one-on-one coaching sessions, small group classes & School based curriculums.

Our lessons are designed to be fun, hands-on, and memorable, ensuring your child enjoys the journey of becoming a polite and well-rounded individual.

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What Your Child Will Learn

The Basics of Good Manners & Communication

Our engaging and interactive program helps children develop the confidence, kindness, and social skills they need to thrive at home, at school, and in everyday life.

Children will learn to:

  • Use good manners with confidence, including saying "please," "thank you," and other everyday courtesies.

  • Understand the power of "magic words" and how respectful language helps build positive relationships.

  • Develop confident body language, warm facial expressions, and positive first impressions.

  • Build meaningful friendships through kindness, empathy, and respect for others.

  • Demonstrate thoughtful behavior and considerate manners in a variety of social situations.

  • Become active listeners by giving others their full attention and responding thoughtfully.

  • Discover the art of conversation and small talk, creating the foundation for lasting friendships and strong social connections.

  • Communicate with confidence by making eye contact, speaking clearly, and using a calm, respectful tone of voice.

  • Express their thoughts with confidence while learning positive ways to resolve disagreements with kindness and respect.

What Your Child Will Learn

Understanding Personalities and Building Stronger Friendships

One of the most popular parts of our program is helping children discover that everyone communicates, thinks, and responds differently—and that these differences are something to appreciate, not fear.

Using our easy-to-understand Four Color Personality System, children learn to recognize different personality styles in themselves and others. Through fun, interactive activities, they discover each color's unique strengths, communication style, and the best ways to connect with different people.

Children will learn how to:

  • Discover their own personality style and the strengths that make them unique.

  • Recognize the four personality colors and identify these traits in others.

  • Understand why friends, classmates, siblings, and adults may think, communicate, and behave differently.

  • Adapt their communication style to build stronger, more positive relationships.

  • Develop empathy, patience, and respect for different personalities.

  • Improve teamwork, friendships, and conflict resolution by understanding how others like to communicate.

  • Celebrate differences and build confidence in connecting with a wide variety of people.

This fun and engaging approach gives children practical social skills they can use every day, helping them communicate with greater confidence, form lasting friendships, and navigate social situations with kindness and respect.

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What Your Child Will Learn

Table Manners & Dining Etiquette - Parents, please note that this training may be conducted over four separate sessions.

Dining etiquette is about much more than knowing which fork to use. It teaches children confidence, respect, and gratitude, as well as how to present themselves with ease in any dining setting—from family dinners to restaurants, celebrations, and future business events.

Children will learn to:

  • Set a formal table correctly and understand the purpose of each piece of cutlery, glassware, and dinnerware.

  • Practice proper dining posture and confident table presence.

  • Learn correct napkin etiquette and how to use cutlery with confidence.

  • Understand the difference between Continental and American dining styles.

  • Practice polite conversation and table etiquette while dining with others.

  • Develop respectful dining habits, including waiting until everyone is served and showing consideration for others.

  • Learn how to politely ask for items to be passed and offer assistance at the table.

  • Understand restaurant etiquette and how to interact respectfully with servers and hospitality staff.

  • Practice appropriate behavior at family celebrations, weddings, formal dinners, and other special occasions.

  • Learn gracious ways to handle unfamiliar foods and politely decline food they do not enjoy.

  • Build confidence attending restaurants, school functions, and social events with excellent manners.

  • Develop gratitude, respect, and consideration to create positive dining experiences wherever they go.

Our dining sessions are hands-on, interactive, and fun, giving children the opportunity to practice every skill in a supportive environment so they leave feeling confident and prepared for any dining occasion.

To celebrate this learning experience, a Certificate of Achievement is awarded upon completion of the four workshop sessions. Course notes are presented as a PDF. There are no excuses for losing a booklet!

Duration 90 Minutes | Investment $130 Per Session

For lasting results, each subject is recommended to be reinforced twice.

Sessions available Monday to Saturday

After school: 4:30–6:00 pm

School vacation weekdays

Small friend groups welcome (group discounts available)

Where Timberline Farmhouse 5705 Simms Street Arvada, Colorado 80002

Let’s Help Your Child Thrive!

Join us in fostering courtesy, charm, and confidence. Enroll your child in Very Cool Charm School today and watch them sparkle in every social setting!